This is one dating mistake, that can be very costly..
Online dating can be a tricky field to navigate sometimes.
You can read the profile of a person, and think you know a lot about them.
Heck, you can even talk to them on the phone a few times.
Until you actually meet them though, you really don’t know what is in store for you.
Is this going to be heaven or hell, you sometimes wonder.
Such was the experience several years ago, when I went out with a woman.
Let’s call her Sue.
I picked her up at her apartment (a bit unusual, as most women don’t give you their home
address on the first date) right on time and she was ready to go.
Sue was an attractive brunette, wearing the proverbial black dress, and it fit like a glove
and so I imagined this was going to be a fun evening.
The plan was to go to a hotel nightclub, in the downtown area, and do some dancing
and get to know each other a bit better.
We got to the club, grabbed a table, it was still early, around 9pm so we ordered a couple
of drinks and started to chat a bit; the usual small talk about some of our interests, and
Then the DJ put a song on that I liked, so I grabbed Sue, and took her to the dance floor.
Holy smokes, this woman could dance! She had all the moves.
And of course she really knew how to do the bump and grind, and did not waste any time
showing her interest.
Great I thought, this date is going really well, obviously I have made a good impression.
After about 20 minutes of dancing, I guided Sue back to our table, so we could continue
I wanted to get to know her a little better.
And that’s when it started: She went into a tirade about her last boyfriend, and how the
relationship was a disaster. What a rotten guy he was, yada yada, yada.
That is when the RED FLAG warning went up.
All of sudden, I saw myself as being the next guy in line, who was also going to be
chopped to pieces by Sue, while she was talking to her next potential boyfriend.
Such negativity. And she was quite emotional about it too.
How can you really trust a women like this, whom you hardly know
and is already badmouthing somebody else.
Now I was thinking, that this date had turned from what might have
been fun, to one that I just wanted to end.
No matter how attractive she was,
that kind of low class behaviour on a first date,meant that it would be the last date.
We went back to the dance floor, and then it was time to go home I decided.
I drove Sue home, to drop her off. And she leaned right into me for a kiss
and put her arms around me as soon as I put the car in park.
Talk about a fast mover!
She then suggested we go to her place for a nightcap.
In retrospect, I should have simply made up some excuse to leave, but I was not
thinking with that part of my brain unfortunately.
After I left, I decided that I was not even going to bother calling Sue again.
Well guess what?
The next day I got a nasty text from Sue, saying: “Why haven’t you called me again’?
Your just like every other guy! You just want to have sex with a women, and then dump them”
I called Sue back, to find out what the issue was and boy was she pissed.
And she hung up on me. Then called me back.
This time I hung up on her.
Sue obviously had some serious anger issues, and other faults and I was not
interested in trying to “fix her up”.
So the lesson for you here is not to do what Sue did.
If you go out on a date with a woman, you want to keep it light and fun, and make
sure she has a great time, so you can too.
You cannot build trust with someone, if you are complaining about your ex, and how
she is screwing you over, and won’t let you see the kids, etc.
Otherwise, you are going to be shut down very quickly, and deservedly so.
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